softasra:

asra headcanons:

-His hair is naturally fluffy and soft. Like, you’ve seen strangers walk up to him and ask what product he uses in his hair. But like, the worst thing is he doesnt use any product. He dunks his head underwater and he’s done. its incredibly unfair

-he wears his heart on his sleeve. Its mostly in his eyes. His face could be totally deadpan but his eyes give away everything he’s thinking

-he ALWAYS looks at you with the most endearing look. like, he’s so unbelieveably proud of you and he just melts every time he looks at you. you could have the worst bedhead in the world and drool dripping down your chin and he’d still look at you like you were an angel

-very good with his hands (take that statement as you will). he’s good at tactile things like sewing and knitting. Also his hands are very soft.

-he smells like home. you two could be miles and miles away from Vesuvia, but if you just press your face against his collar bone and take a deep breath its like youre back home at the shop

-very chill. He doesn’t get jealous or possessive hardly at all. he trusts you completely, and knows he doesnt have to worry about you.

-his laugh is like sunshine. hearing him laugh will actually never fail to make you happy. its surprisingly light and bubbly.

-he’s quiet. his voice is naturally pretty soft-spoken, and he definitely doesnt raise his voice very often. if hes mad he just gives people The Look and everything’s good. (The Look strikes instant fear because it reminds people that while asra is sweet, he could totally destroy someone)

-speaking of his voice, its very very nice. it’s really mellow and calming. it’s airy and a little raspy sometimes. He likes reading to you if he knows you’ve had a rough day. 

-A Good Singer. he doesnt sing often but its a treat when he does. he hums often though

-lives for neck/chest kisses. if you kiss his chest where his heart is he WILL melt. its his weakness.

-loves to make you flustered, and will tease you RELENTLESSLY. he always does his best to make you blush (especially if his teasing is suggestive)

-his idea of a date is either lay in bed together and read, or go on a week long adventure somewhere you’ve never been before. theres no in between.

oligopsoneia:

afloweroutofstone:

transgenderer:

trans-rogers:

transgenderer:

i feel like knowing the word “yonic” (the vagina equilavent of phallic) really changes a person because after that point basically any shape or objective can be classified as genital-shaped. eyes? yonic symbolism. fingers? phallic symbolism. thats all there is

poking yourself in the eye? a cunning symbol of sexual intercourse

exactly!!

Might I add:

Yonic the Hedgehog

you might not have, and yet you did, entirely cognizant,

arithanas:

gaylileofigaro:

This is worse. Looking at these you can tell they have no significant monetary value. They were confiscated as a fear tactic. Nothing more.

This picture breaks my heart everytime it appears in my dash. It’s a fear tactic, alright but—

The first one in the left corner: It’s a first communion rosary, and it’s not cheap.

The black one in the first line: That’s a widow rosary and it’s old.

The white one in the second line:  is a commemoration rosary. It has a miniature picture in the round part. I haven’t seen that since the 70′s.

In the third line, multicolor one: It’s an Anima mundi, I have only seen those in the hands of Rosary ministery’s old ladies. The oldest ones are from the 80′s after Juan Pablo II came to Mexico for the first time. It’s one of the old ones, I know because the crucifixes are different. 

The third one on the fourth line: Red and gold. The style is old, the metal is dark, that’s a 50′s rosary, probably a quinceañera one (or it’s maybe older, from the 40′s when the brides carried red roses with their offerings).

The fifth one on the fourth line: It’s a quinceañera rosary with Ignatius’s tear. The style is old and in my part of Mexico is orphan girls who used it. At least it was when I was young.

The third one of the fifth line: the blue one with the anchor. That one I have only seen in Veracruz and it doesn’t look new.

The fifth one on the fifth line: That’s a 90′s wedding rosary. Black and white patterns were popular on that date.

The fourth one on the last line: That’s a first communion rosary from the 30′s. It’s delicate and most probably silver.

The rest wrench my heart too, the humble everyday rosaries with wooden beads and knots. Those are cheap and bear the wear and tear of their user handling. But those  I described are much more.

Those are mother’s rosaries.

Those are not just rosaries. Those are mementos, that’s the proof of their families stories. They are taking from them the only portable things they can carry to feel the connection to their families.

It’s not a fear tactic. Call it like by its name.

It’s dehumanization.